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A crime is a crime, even if the victim was willing to be bought off. The man is still a rapist, and was proven so. She can’t offer retroactive consent for the crime, she was just willing to not pursue charges; it wouldn’t have changed that a rape took place. The state can and should punish rapists.

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Man, from the west this just paints a horrible picture of gender relations in China. The rank transactional nature of what is supposed to be a life partnership, police incompetence, police pressuring a rape victim into trying to take a bribe, the minimal sentence, all of it is bad

This is the kind of transactional relationship you’d really only expect to see among very wealthy people in the US - athletes, CEOs, heiresses, etc. but this (and other things you’ve highlighted) seems to be among ordinary people!

Obviously not everything is like this, and there are transactional elements to relationships in the west too even if implicit instead of explicit. But I can’t imagine a US court telling somebody who reported a rape “wouldn’t it be an OK compromise if you got half the rapists house and married him?”

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