“The gold standard for a pregnant lady's family is C-section, epidurals, and bottle-feeding. Any family that doesn't allow these things are inevitably ignorant, stingy, and don't see the pregnant lady as a human being.”
Comments say, “C-sections and epidurals should only happen when necessary anyways, but if you're gonna say this, can't you also say that mothers who don't breastfeed are also selfish, unloving, and don't see the baby as human beings? [Doge]”
“But I don't want a C-section. I don't want scars.”
“And getting a month-sitting nurse. That's super important.”
“Children from poor, rural families have a really hard time, because their family can't provide them with any real support. They can only give shitty advice, like, “You've got to work hard.” Nothing actually useful or actionable. For example.
If you're looking for work, poor parents would say, “You're graduated from uni now. You've got to work hard yourself now.” And that's it.
If you're marrying, your parents aren't going to help you prepare anything, and they've got no money. What are their kids supposed to do?
If you're looking to buy a house, they'll say, “Oh no, don't buy a house now! Housing prices are plummeting! All the experts are saying there's gonna be a population collapse.”
If you're trying to get a promotion, for your coworkers, several generations of their family have taken up posts inside this system. What about you?
When it comes to personal connections, poor parents would educate their kids, “Tame horses get ridden, tame people get fucked. You've gotta make sure you don't get screwed over.” And that's it.
Inevitably, you're going to run into conflict in life, and a poor, rural family is going to teach you, “Fight 'em. Don't back down.”
And they demand filial piety. You've been working for several years now, it's time you started contributing to the household. Don't bother buying a marital house. Put together 500K to buy a multi-story house for your parents first.
And after this series of taichi combos, the kid's 35, and has absolutely nothing to his name. End of the story.
Take a look around. 100% of poor, rural families are like this.”
Comments say, “This is absolutely true of all of my rural friends. They all need to have a huge mansion in their village first, before they buy a house in the city.”
“This is so real, it's like you installed a security camera on top of my head.”
“This is so my ex-boyfriend's family. All of them have mush for brains. They don't buy their kids houses, because they're too busy building themselves new houses in their village.”
The blogger, Su Xiaolan, who wrote about how it's unreasonable to ask parents to stand in between train cars is posting again today, “For all the people telling me to go die, opening new accounts so they can troll me, don't run. I've already contacted a lawyer. If you've got any balls, don't delete your posts. Aside from apologising, I'm gonna make you pay for my lawyer fees too. Weibo shows IP address, and they'll hand over personal ID numbers and addresses. I'm gonna follow this through to the end.
And all the people calling me an old biddy, honestly, your mom and your grandma are all old biddies. At least I can live long enough to become an old biddy. You might not.”
She shows screenshots of blogs insulting her.
“Is it so easy to be a human being these days? Anyone can call themselves a blogger now? If you don't have the right values, then stop appearing in front of people to disgust them, okay? If you've got nothing to do with your life, take your little Princes to go uphold justice, let them into female bathrooms to look under people's skirts. What a snowflake SJW.”
“A day in Su Xiaolan's life: My son pooped all over the floor in the bus today, and some people dared to glare at him! Can little kids control their poop? No! If you don't like the smell, you're discriminating against children! My son is my Prince!“
“Oh my god, this is hilarious. She's literally searching for blogs that mention her name, and one by one reporting them to moderators and blocking them.”
“Dug through her past posts. Apparently, she's a simp who wrote angsty posts about her husband ten years ago. And ten years later, she's a night market old biddy wiping her son's butt. No wonder she wants to put on a fake dick and make herself an enemy of all women, to fight for more privileges for her beloved boys. If you report this post, I'll just post it again so you can read it a couple more times.”
“I've pierced through her defenses with my post. Not only did she block me, she pulled me out of her blacklist the next day to trying to get my account banned. Nothing to say. She only got famous by writing brainless simp wife posts, of course she has to protect her male babies, both the big one, and the two little ones. She only dares to speak out on weibo, and then delete and block all the comments that don't suit her, to create the illusion that all these internet commenters agree with her. But nobody cares. I sincerely hope that she can be the soil for the men in her family having prosperous lives, and that she dies a good death.”
Comments say, “But Xiaolan's only ever called for people to be more tolerant to children. Why is everyone accusing her of only being lax with male children? Children includes girls too.”
“It's your posts that pierced through these trolls' defenses—how dare someone still speak a different opinion completely fearless of being attacked? The louder they scream and the higher they jump, the more it means you're doing the right thing. You've stepped on their sore spot. These trolls aren't in charge of the world.”
“Feminism has gotten insane. I'm just waiting for the day they're all wiped out.”
A tiktok video of a man beating a woman inside the Home Affair Bureau [which processes marriage and divorce certificates] for unclear reasons. The blogger writes, “Look how every punch is to her stomach. He never hits his face. Clearly, he's got enough experience that bruises around the face can make people think he's abusive, and can get him in trouble. He's a smart guy. This type of man is terrifying. He's so practiced and controlled at beating people. He never hits the face.
It's so nice for men to have a marriage certificate. Even a moment before that marriage is no longer in existence, he can still beat his wife one last time, and then go home peacefully. (Someone did call the cops. After the cops got there, they just supervised the two while they finished processing their divorce, and then let them both go.)
Without a marriage certificate, if he beat a woman up, he'd end up in jail. That's why you gotta treasure your marriage certificates.”
Comments say, “Look how hard he's punching her in the stomach. He wants her to die.”
“If I was this woman, I would murder him.”
“Domestic violence is still illegal. Why are you making it sound like it's perfectly legal? [Doge]”
“They should play this video on loop in this waiting area.”
A blogger reposts someone's Instagram posts, saying, “This is some insane shit.
The post is a picture of positive pregnancy tests, with the caption reading, “Is anyone kind enough to let us live with them? I just need a bite of food, nothing more.”
Down in the comments, the top comment is a pinned one by OP, “Anyone wanting to be my baby's daddy needs to provide proof of income and a list of assets, as well as personal photos and tell me what your parents do for a living. If you don't have any of these, then don't bother me.”
Her next post reads, “I don't understand why so many people are insulting me. My baby's actual dad says he can't provide for us, he's under too much pressure, that we should look out for ourselves. So I thought I'd find a good daddy for my baby. I was born in 2005, I don't know what to do. I can't afford an abortion. Who can put us up for a while? Once the baby's dad gets enough money, he'll come pick us up. If he doesn't ever come, then I can just marry you instead. I won't ask for a very high bride price. I just want a house and a car. I don't want my baby to go without.”
In the comments to this post, she clarifies, “The baby's dad got sent by his mom out of state to go to school. He didn't say what I should do. He doesn't care about me anymore. Whoever can provide for me and the baby can be their dad. Once they're born, I'll let them have your surname.”
Comments say, “Not only is she irresponsible, she might not have a brain.”
“How many years in jail do you have to do to abort this thing? If you can't afford a baby, don't have a baby. Focus on yourself first.”
“It's so ridiculous, I kind of think this is a troll post by a man.”
A blogger posts two screenshots from a tiktok video, which reads that a man's ex-wife died of cervical cancer, and his current wife just got diagnosed with cervical cancer too. The doctors say that it might be related to him. According to science, if a man's ex-wife has cervical cancer, then the chances that his second wife gets HPV will be greater than normal by 3.5-4 times. Doctors call this sort of person a “high risk husband.”
Comments say, “Men are super gross...”
“I was chatting with a girl who's been a nurse for over a decade. A lot of women find cervical problems in their regular check ups, and the doctors say that this type of problem can only be caused by having a cheating man around them.”
“Lol, the feminism in this comment section is out of control.”
It’s interesting that China has this reputation for being collectivist, but there also seems to be a fair bit of every-man-for-himself attitude, especially around healthcare and children. Where I live, we’re supposedly an individualistic culture, but there’s still generally support for universal healthcare and family support programs… although I’ve heard ‘poor people shouldn’t have kids’ here, too.
buss -> bus
get HPV -> gets HPV
longer existence -> "longer in existence" or "longer exists"
daddy need -> daddy needs
to much -> too much