A while back, there was a case of a dad who worked with his mistress to throw his children off of a tall building. They have appealed their sentencing and lost in the appeals court. The judgement of death sentence has been maintained.
Comments are celebrating, “Kill them right away!”
“Thanks for bringing justice to the mother!”
“Do we have an execution where we throw people off of a building? They should get to experience it. Preferably a couple of times.”
A blogger posts screenshots of a thread where someone says, “Although I’m not happy, and I’m divorced, and I’m fired from my job, and my mom passed away, I’ve never thought about dying. My parents gave birth to me and raised me. Giving up on my life would be shameful behaviour.”
Below, someone replies, “But if my dad died, I’d be pretty happy.” Followed by a string of replies of people concurring.
The blogger comments, “So many fathers are proud of their daughters. But their daughters…look at these screenshots. What a magical world we live in.”
Comments ask, “Why don’t you ask what this father did?”
A pregnant lady found out through testing that her baby has XYY chromosomes, and wants to keep the baby anyways. Someone posts a PSA, “XYY is a chromosome abnormality. Because of the extra Y-chromosome, it can lead to children with violent tendencies, anti-social personality, and is considered to be a form of genetic disorder. You can look up Jia Peiran, who raped and murdered a 4 year old girl at 15.”
Comments agree, “Stop drowning in your own world. I feel like no matter what everyone is saying, you’re determined to have the baby. Girl, you’re still young. This isn’t a “family decision”. Jia Peiran put insecticide in other people’s water, he beat the victim to death after he raped her, plus all the shit he did in daycare. He’s not a normal kid. Don’t bet your whole life on this!”
“Hopefully, he’ll die in utero and not give you a choice.”
“Everyone saying it’s none of our business whether she has the kid or not, what if her kid turns out to be an anti-social psycho and hurts a lot of innocent people? I don’t care about her, but I care about everyone who might be hurt by her child!”
A blogger reposts a tiktok video of a set of twins, saying, “You can tell people’s personalities from their faces. Can you tell the subtle difference between these two kids who look almost the same?”
Comments say, “The one on the right looks like he’s going to grow up to be a murderer.”
“The one on the left is popular, high IQ, high EQ, he’ll be successful. The right one is mean and unpopular, and dumb. He only knows how to bully people weaker than him.”
“The eyes of the kid on the left are more honest and kind. The first time the kid on the right turned to look at the camera, he literally scared me. Sure, kids are cute, but the right one’s eyes make me uncomfortable.”
“With the right one around, it’s hard to say if the one on the left will even survive to adulthood.”
“It’s just nature. One of them is good, and the other one is evil.”
“I’ve discovered a phenomenon, but I’m not sure if it’s accurate or not. Like, the more spicy your cuisine is, the poorer the region is. Or this might even be true down to the personal level. Super poor people and super poor regions love high fat, high salt, high spicy, high calorie foods. Wealthier regions and people with taste like sweets and lighter foods.”
Comments say, “I worry about the IQ of people who believe this. I worry about the EQ of people who would say shit like this.”
“A western architect asked me why Chinese windows open outwards. He said that European windows open inwards, so it’s easy to wipe both sides of the class. I have no idea how to answer him?”
Comments say, “I’ve seen a really good comment that it’s because Chinese national policy is open to the outside.”
“How many windows have you seen? Talking about Chinese windows like they’re all the same.”
“It’s taking advantage of public space, satisfying Chinese people’s need to always be taking advantage of something.”
“It’s not as though windows in England all open inwards or anything.”
A compilation of people’s experiences studying overseas.
“I pretended to be mute for two years because I didn’t speak a word of Russian.”
“I had a friend who studied overseas in Korea for 3 years and never came back. He told his family that it was because of covid, but actually, he spent two and a half years of it in jail.”
“I had a friend who spent all his tuition in a casino and begged on the streets of Canada for two years.”
“Beat up a white person in his school. The white guy got expelled. He was totally fine.”
“I’ve seen a senior, fully Chinese, who got drafted into the military because he spoke such good Russian and had dyed his hair blond that everyone thought he was native. It was only when the sergeant checked everyone’s ID that he was discovered as a foreigner and let go.”
“My friend tried to walk from Durham to London. He carried a set of bedding with him and just slept in the street at night. A homeless guy took pity on him at some point and gave my friend his resting place.”
“Accidentally wrote $500 USD for tip. Ate instant noodles for a week.”
“Got my phone pickpocketed by a gypsy on the Paris subway, and rode one stop back and found the guy who did it, and pickpocketed it back.”
“Did aijiu (burning Chinese herbs) in England and got reported by my neighbour for smoking marijuana. I almost had to go to the Consulate over this.”
“I had a friend who ate lunch in the bathroom and got taken away by the police.”
“I got beaten into the hospital by a kangaroo. I still don’t dare to tell my mom. I just said that I fell down some stairs.”
“Got so drunk that I was on the verge of passing out, but I was too worried someone would call an ambulance and I’d have to pay 3K USD, so I used sheer willpower to stay awake and in a squatting position, insisting that I was fine.”
“I knew a couple where the boyfriend went overseas to study, and his girlfriend ended up getting together with his sister in China. And he found himself a boyfriend while overseas.”
“I knew a guy with girlfriends in all 24 time zones.”
A childcare blogger writes, “I remember someone saying that if you take conversations between parent and child that look perfectly fine at first glance, and put it into an equal relationship, like between husband and wife, then you start seeing how fucked up it it.
Imagine, you went through some terrible workplace bullying. You come home, sit down on the couch, and start crying. At this point, your SO walks by and asks, “What are you crying for? If someone is being mean to you, just fight back. Worst case, call the cops on them. Protect yourself! What’s the point of crying at home? Stop being such a wuss.”
Are you pissed off yet? How dare you call me a wuss!
But if you change the scenario to between parent and child, a lot of people think this is 100% perfectly okay parenting. That you have to tell your child there’s no point in crying, you have to do something, there’s no point in being weak, you have to be strong.
I got a comment from a parent yesterday, that when their child gets into social conflicts, they’d teach the kid, “If it’s dangerous, hide somewhere safe. Don’t just stand still. I also taught him if danger is getting closer, you need to know how to protect yourself. You can use objects or your hand to protect your head. But my son never learns any of it. Every time, he just cries. I told him to stop being a wuss. What’s the use in crying? He’s so hard to teach.”
Of course he’s hard to teach. That’s the wrong way to teach a child. You’ve just increased mental anguish.”
Comments ask, “But if the kid cries over literally everything, it doesn’t count, right?”
“But what if my kid screams and wails at the slightest problem or things not going his way? What should I do? The more I comfort, the more he cries.”
“My daughter is 22. When is she going to be independent? Whether it’s middle school or university, every time she leaves to go to school, she’ll tear up. She’s constantly calling home about how much she misses home and how much she misses her mom. She finds every excuse to come back home while at uni. She follows me wherever I go. She hides behind me wherever we go. She’s always calling mom, mom, mom, but don’t remember what she was going to stay.
She loves cuddling too. When we go on a walk together, she has to hold my arm. Lately, she likes to lay her head on my stomach, like a hot marinaded egg.
When she’s not at home, she tells me about every single tiny little thing that comes up in her life. She’ll even tell me if she’s out of toilet paper in the bathroom. It’s not like I can bring some to her. Other kids know to only tell parents good news. Mine tells me every news. She’ll even exaggerate bad things that happen to her so I’ll pity her or something.”
She shows screenshots from her daughter, saying, “Mom, my throat hurts. It hurt so bad I couldn’t sleep last night. T_T I want my mommy! I want my mommy!”
Comments say, “She sounds like she’s complaining, but she’s actually showing off.”
“I’m 33, and my mom still spoon feeds me food.”
”I hope my daughter turns out like this.”
“I’m so jealous. I got a brother when I was six, and ever since then…”
“I knew a couple where the boyfriend went overseas to study, and his girlfriend ended up getting together with his sister in China. And he found himself a boyfriend while overseas.”
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Is childhood bullying a topic brought up much in China? I know it's very regularly portrayed in Japan