04/11/23 - They abolished the "intercourse with children" crime because it gave a lesser sentence than just rape.

A submission to a relationship blogger: “A 175 cm, 90 kilo man told me I needed to be 172 cm, 56 kilos??? I’m so mad, I can’t sleep. Maybe the best way is to be five pounds total, weight of the urn included? I want to vent more, but I feel like this kind of scumbag isn’t worth my time. Talk about pot calling the kettle black. I’m very happy with myself. People trying to PUA me can fuck right off.”

Comments say, “Sugar cane is thin. Maybe he should marry a sugar cane.”

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A submission to the same relationship blogger: “I’ve got a very…um, open roommate. She’s got all kinds of guys on her hook in all kinds of communities and in society. Changes boyfriends once a week. Not only does she keep using my shampoo and body wash, she took my brand new dress! I saved up two months to buy it. I hadn’t even worn it myself yet. And she wore it on a date with her new boyfriend!

First off, I definitely don’t want that dress anymore. It’s dirty now. But at the same time, there’s no way I’ll win if I have to fight her. What should I do? I’m freaking out here. Why would this happen to me???”

Comments say, “Make her pay it back, or you’ll post about it on the school forum boards.”

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A blogger reposts a suggestion from Professor Li Meijin, from the People’s Republic Security University of China. That “abducting women and children” should be abolished as a crime, and these cases should just be prosecuted as false imprisonment, rape, gang rape, assault and battery, and whatever else was involved. And both the seller and the buyer needs to be prosecuted. At the same time, any government employees who helped the buyer obtain IDs for their victim and processed marriage certificates should be prosecuted with those crimes as well. This is the only way to truly put a stop to the organised crime behind this and all the protection umbrellas they’re hiding under.

Comments say, “Exactly! They already abolished the “intercourse with children” crime exactly because they discovered that it actually gave a lesser sentence than just rape.”

Another commenter points out that, “This was originally posted during the Chained Woman incident. Shortly after, this professor vanished off the internet and never posted again.”

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An askreddit question, “What do you do if someone makes sexual rumours about you?” The top voted reply is, “I’ve had sexual rumours made about me—that I was sleeping with my boss. The person who did it was a man in his thirties. He later admitted that he was worried I’d replace him, so he made up those rumours, hoping I’d feel too much pressure and resign.

Most of the male workers in the company would go by the fire escape stairwell to smoke. When I feel stressed out, sometimes I’ll join them. But at that time, everyone was looking at me super weird and made me uncomfortable. One time, I happened to overhear them talking about how the boss relies on me a lot because I’m sleeping with him. They were talking about all kinds of intimate details as though they were right there. They were all saying that I was just pretending to be a stuck up.

I thought it was ridiculous. Laughable, even.

I listened for a while and figured out that it was A who started the rumours, and B who was doing the most in spreading it. Then I walked right up to them. When they saw me, they startled into silence for a moment. No one spoke.

I had a very serious expression on my face. With a shocked tone of voice, I asked if what they said was true. They were probably at a loss for what to say too, all kind of mumbling and looking away.

Then, right in front of their faces, I dialled 110 (Chinese emergency police number).

Angrily, I said that I was raped, but I don’t remember any details, maybe date rape drugs were involved, but I have a witness. I told them the address of the company, and I started crying. Those coworkers were completely stunned. B immediately tried to wiggle himself clear, saying that he’d just heard it from A. Everyone else had no idea what to do. It was so awkward.

They didn’t know how to comfort me, so they went to find A. When A was dragged over, he also looked totally lost and confused. As soon as I saw him, I grabbed his arm and pleaded that he has to tell the cops what happened.

Things blew up after that.

Before the police ever got there, A was explaining to everyone that he’d made everything up. I refused to believe him and kept crying and begging him to tell everyone what happened. When the cops came, I kept crying and explained everything. A kept saying he’d made everything up, so I kept begging him, begging him to not fear the boss, he won’t be fired, the police are right there, just tell them what that bastard did to me.

The boss wasn’t at the company that day. He was called in from home. The cops told my boss that someone had accused him of rape and they’re wanting him to cooperate with the investigation. Although I didn’t hear what he said, I saw the blank look on his face. I felt a little bad about dragging him through this.

I just kept insisting that I was date raped. I don’t remember anything. So the cops start questioning A what time he saw me leave the hotel with my boss. He couldn’t answer any details. The cops told him that if he knows something, then he has to tell them, or he might be seen as an accomplice. A said he had made everything up, he just didn’t want to be replaced, he was trying to get me to quit. I kept begging him to tell the truth. The whole time, A kept rubbing his face.

The boss said none of this ever happened. I said I have an eye witness. A saw everything. A told everyone. And everyone who was spreading the rumours and joining in on gossip backed me up. The boss pointed his finger right at A’s nose and threatened that he was going to sue him.

We ended up all going to the police station and making a statement. They checked the cameras at the hotel. They checked out ID. They checked our car GPS. They checked the security cameras outside all of our houses. Every clue pointed to nothing happening between me and my boss.

The police comforted me and said that everything was obviously a misunderstanding. The boss isn’t gonna let this go though. He’s furious that he’s been falsely accused like this, and is already calling his lawyer about a lawsuit. A is pleading that he’s under so much stress in life. I just walked up and kicked him, called him a psycho. I was gonna kick him more, but the cops pulled me back.

After I got out of the police station, I kept apologising to my boss, who also sighed and complained about how that was his first time in a police station too. A quit on his own the very next day, left without any hassle.

The boss held a company-wide meeting about how people need to report any false rumours about their coworkers, and if no source is found, then anyone caught spreading rumours will be fired. He even praised me for dealing with this so cleanly and quickly.

So, in conclusion, if someone is making up rumours about you, call the cops.”

Comments say, “This is what they should be teaching in schools!”

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A blog post, “Before my dad retired, he laid all his cards out to me. He said that he and my mom had already finished raising me to be an adult, supported me through university, bought me a car after I graduated, and paid the down payment on a house for me. They’ve done everything they can, and from now on, they’re going to live for themselves.

They had spent all of their savings on me. They have nothing right now. But after they retire, they’ll have 350K in their 401 K. They’ve got a house in their hometown too, that’s been empty since my grandma died. Since they have no relatives left in that hometown, and they don’t want to live somewhere so lonely, they don’t intend to go back. They’ll sell the house for probably 400K.

That way, they’ll have 750K between then, along with social security cheques of 7-8K a month. That’s enough to take care of themselves for the rest of their lives. They’ve been frugal all their life and not spent much.

My father said that he intends to spend all of this money on my mom and himself. They won’t be helping me with anything else. He said I was already 28. Even though I’m not married and don’t even have a partner yet, I’ve got a job. I make 11K a month, and even after I’m done pay my mortgage, I still have 3K left. I can live on that if I stretch it out while I work hard on improving my circumstances. I need to rely on myself now.

Once I’m married and have children, they won’t interfere in my life. Three generations of people were never meant to mix together. My father said that their responsibilities to me are finished. Once they retire, they’ll take advantage of what few years of health they have left to travel and see the world. My mom had never travelled far in her life. She’d laboured at home all her life. My dad feels guilty about that.

I was silent for a while, then I nodded and said that I understood.

My dad looked at me for a long time with a complicated expression and said that once I have kids, I need to be prepared that they won’t babysit my kids for me. But they can consider helping me out with 3K a month. I need to take charge of my own life, for better or for worse. By that time, they and me will be two independent families. They’ve worked hard their whole life, sent off both of their parents, raised me, got me a house and a car, now they just want to live for themselves.

Then, he told me a shocking piece of news.

He said that after they retire, they’re going to get a will made that all of their estate will be left to me, and that I don’t need to worry about their funeral. He said that he’s talked with my mom and she agrees. They don’t want a grave. I don’t need to spend a whole bunch of money just to waste a perfectly good plot of land. They’ve live happily, and they don’t want to put additional financial pressure on me after they die. So at that time, I just need to fly their ashes back to their home town and bury the urn under the tree of their old house. In that house is the childhood memories he had made with my grandpa and grandma. He wants to rest eternally there with my mom. He said there’s no need to grieve for them, just remember them now and then.

As I listen to this, I start tearing up and crying.

My dad said after he retires, he and my mom will spend 10 years travelling. After they’re 70, they’ll sign up for a bunch of art classes or music classes, just pass the time together. Once they’re old, inevitably, they’ll get ill. If it’s just normal colds and flu, then they can get treatment. If it’s anything serious that can’t get fixed, then there’s no point in paying for an ICU or anything. I should definitely sign that Do Not Resuscitate.

He had a old friend who had just died recently. The friend stayed in an ICU for over half a month. He was still a conscious. Spent five figures a day to endure a whole bunch of suffering and ended up dead anyways. For the sake of his treatment, his son had sold his house and gotten into a whole bunch of debt that he needs to spend the rest of his life paying off. And now, his dad is still dead, and his wallet is empty. It’s just fucking over your children for no reason.

My dad told me, “If it comes down to it, just pull the plug. Don’t throw your whole life away just to keep us alive for a few extra days. It’s not worth it.”

My dad said that he’ll never understand people who sell off everything they own, take out huge loans, and work their whole life to pay off a huge debt and never live a happy moment again just to cure an old person who doesn’t have but a few more months to live anyways. Both he and my mom agree that they’d completed all their goals for their life, and it’s just a matter of enjoying themselves now. It’d be just irrational to then screw over everything they’d worked for to hold onto a couple of days of suffering.

It’s more important for the living to continue living.

At this point, I’m sobbing. I’m a single child. If that day comes and I lose my parents, then I’ll be an orphan. Can I really pull the plug?

I don’t know. I need to make money, so I can prepare for that eventuality.

Is my dad being ridiculous?”

Comments al agree, “This is what I want to do with my life.”

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A military blogger writes about heredity. “Strong hereditary straights. Mommies need to look at this.

Nose: Look at the paternal grandma. If she has a low nose bridge, the kid will have it too.

Height: Evenly split between mom and dad, or the kid will be exactly as tall as their maternal uncle.

Eye Shape: If both of the parents have monolids, over 70% chance the kid will have monolids too.

Hair: Look at the maternal grandpa. If maternal grandpa has curly hair, the baby will have curly hair.

Weight: Look at maternal uncle.

Skin Colour: Boys will take after mom. For girls, so long as one parent is fair-skinned, she won’t be too dark.

Eye Lashes: Tends to take after the father.

IQ: 70% takes after the mother.

Temperament: Highly correlated with mother’s temperament during pregnancy.

Personality: Mostly takes after father.”

Comments say, “If the parents both have monolids, the kid will be 100% monolid, because it’s a aa recessive trait. It’s impossible for an Aa or AA to come out of an aa x aa union.”