“Just discussed Fat Cat around the office, and my coworker said, “Fat Cat is someone who actually believed in love. He just met a professionally trained romance terrorist.”
“Romance terrorist” is such a precise term for this.”
Comments say, “Do we call obsessive behaviour love these days?”
“There’s a bunch of people who specifically go after young gamer guys—high income, low diploma, no sense of morality, so they get away with it every time. There’s a bunch of examples in LoL pro leagues.”
“Are we sure this guy believed in love? He’s just an otaku who didn’t understand love at all. Didn’t know how to protect himself. His family is weird too, only showing up once he was dead. What about before? Why did no one tell him this wasn’t love? This wasn’t how you live life? No matter who was with him, it was bound to end in tragedy.”
“If 3 years of high school is for the purpose of getting into college, but you didn’t actually learn anything in college, and you also forgot everything you learned in high school, then weren’t you basically dead for 7 years?”
Comments say, “You go to high school in order to get into college, you go to college in order to get into a postgrad program. Is this a ponzi scheme?”
“Then we’re dead among the dead. Not only did we not learn anything, we also didn’t get to experience any of the college life that everyone else got thanks to Covid.”
“You can still copy paste some shitty memes and screenshots from other people and call yourself a humour blogger.”
“Regarding the Pu Lan Dian girl case, based on media reports and the victim’s sister, I’ve compiled a complete timeline.
A 23-year-old girl in Liaoning was stabbed to death after an argument with her boyfriend. They’d only been dating for 2 months. The first hearing has acquitted the boyfriend.
26th of April, 2022, 1:36AM, Xu Yuan [the girl in this case] was taken by a van to Liaoning Province Pu Lan Dian District Central Hospital, with a knife sticking out of her chest. Her clothes were soaked in blood. She was unable to be resuscitated and passed away that day at 23 years old.
The result of the case: The court has ruled her boyfriend, Shan, not guilty for not. The prosecutor is already appealing for a second hearing, and we’re currently in the middle of that second hearing.
Xu Yuan’s family is also upset about the results of the first hearing, and her sister has been calling out on the internet.
In September of 2023, the court ruled that Shan was not guilty due to a lack of evidence. The judge believed that one, the current evidence cannot support that Xu Yuan had suicidal thoughts as a result of her argument with Shan. Shan could not have predicted that his behaviour might have caused Xu Yuan to stab herself in the chest.
Two, the current evidence cannot establish a link between Shan’s behaviour and Xu Yuan’s death. All the witnesses establish that Xu Yuan didn’t show obvious signs of depression or abnormal behaviour. Shan beating her has escalated their conflict, and he has objectively caused her harm, and it wasn’t on purpose. It was caused by unpredictable factors, and cannot be viewed as a crime.
Three, Shan fulfilled his responsibility to help her.
But Xu’s sister says that she’s still doubtful about the conclusion that Xu Yuan killed herself. For example, the fruit knife was contaminated by blood and no fingerprints could be obtained off of it. The coroner’s report could not eliminate the possibility that it was murder. And Shan’s account of what happened that night is also suspect. For example, why would Xu Yuan pull her clothes up before killing herself? Why would Xu Yuan go outside in nothing but a bath towel in such cold weather?
For more details about the case, you can check out Red Star News’ report.”
Comments say, “Who the hell commits suicide by stabbing themselves in the chest? I don’t get it.”
“I’m just saying, is it possible her boyfriend forced her to stab herself? After all, she really did get beaten to the point that she had two broken ribs. There’s no way she broke her own ribs right before killing herself, right? That’s such a scary possibility…(I’m just guessing here)”
“It’s possible the police didn’t do their jobs properly too.”
“Got this submission in my mailbox: “I’m a girl, and I’ve been masturbating since 16 or 17, and now I’m 28-years-old and I’m still single. A while back, I bought some toys for insertion, and my mom (who lives with me) found out. And she was like, “Why do you have these desires when you don’t have a boyfriend, you pervert?” I was really upset and confused. Should women not have desires like these?”
It’s perfectly normal for grown adults to have sexual desires, whether they have a partner or not. They can use any reasonable method to fulfil that desire.”
Comments say, “Older people are quiet sluts. They have plenty of desire themselves, but they can’t stand to see it in other people.”
“Gift your mom one and let her experience it. She’ll get it once she tries it out.”
“It’s a pretty normal desire. Why is the comment section all about how to hide toys so no one sees them? I feel like we should copy the whole “end period shaming” movement, and make cards like, “you can borrow my toys” and hang it with your toy on your handbag or something.”
Under the hashtag #66-year-old woman verbally abused by the wife of the man who sexually assaulted her three time and #Girl loses job after seeking justice for sexually assaulted mom, a blogger writes, “This 66-year-old farming woman is a reflection of a lot of rural women in my eyes: illiterate, spent most of her life in the village, can’t understand Mandarin, timid, easily ashamed.”
Before coming to Changsha, she’s never left the village she grew up in. She can’t read most words, can’t write her own name. When she called the police, they needed her to sign some documents, and the police officer had to write down her name for her on a piece of paper in extra large font, so she can copy it stroke by stroke. That’s how she learned to “draw” her name for the first time.
She almost never even called the police, because when she described the incident, she couldn’t even get basic facts right. She couldn’t recall the name of the development where it happened, she didn’t know the name of the company where she was working as a security guard. She didn’t know the name of her supervisor who had sexually assaulted her before calling the cops.
She could only speak her local rural dialect. She couldn’t even understand Mandarin. She called breasts “ji ji”. She can only describe her breasts being injured as, “He scratched up my ji ji.” She also didn’t know precise words like “vagina”. She could only describe it as, “where I pee from.” She almost couldn’t communicate with the police or her lawyer. The first time she walked into the police station, she couldn’t speak the words “rape”. When the police asked to take a photo of her, she was too ashamed to agree.
The rapists’ wife also went to the police station and called her shameless, to be seducing someone else’s husband at her age. She was going to beat her, said she’d beat her to death. She was terrified. It took four cops to drag this wife out.
After what happened, her first reaction was guilt. She thought this was, “such a scandal. I have grandchildren. My grandchildren are big. This is such a shameful embarrassment.” She didn’t know how to face her husband. When she came home, she’d “fearfully” serve her husband food and tea out of guilt. She didn’t tell her daughter about the two other incidents of rape even a month after she’d called the cops.
Once her children found out that she’d been sexually assaulted, communication was a problem for them too. Before, the word “sex” had never come up before in conversations between them, never mind rape. Nobody could bring the words to speech. Her daughter patiently communicated with her, but she was too ashamed to talk about it, even though her breasts and vagina are still covered in injuries.
I love this daughter. She repeatedly told her mother, “I’m your daughter. You can tell me anything.”
“It’s okay, mom, you can be brave, tell it how it is.”
“Don’t be afraid. It’s okay. You’re the victim, this isn’t your fault.”
“Mom, you’re the victim here. If you don’t tell the truth and send him to jail, he might sue you for slander and you’ll go to jail.”
After getting a clear story of what happened, her daughter and son took her to the police, and the suspect was arrested after investigations. And yet, her, her husband, and her daughter who all worked for the same company were all fired from that company.
“If we stay silent, the evil that it permits will be reflected in the rest of our lives like a mirror.”
Sources: Mostly Phoenix Web’s “Hidden Pain at 66-years-old: when a village woman was raped three times” report by Wang Huanrong.” And also Peng Pai News.”
Comments say, “This daughter is so awesome!”
“The person who should be ashamed and guilty is the one who did the crime.”
“She should think about whether she can press charges or sue for damages for being fired.”
“A lot of people are saying if Fat Cat didn’t fall in love with such a beauty, and just met a pure-hearted young girl, they would’ve had a happy life together. I mean, it’s fine if little kids believe this bullshit, but adults should wake up a little.
Actual pure-hearted girls don’t really bother to dress themselves up. They tend to be somewhat introverted, not good at talking. And would Fat Cat really love a girl who doesn’t have looks and is really introverted?
To get a little more realistic, I hung out with a beauty tonight, and she told me, “If a man like Fat Cat appeared in my life, I’d date him.”
And I told her directly, “Are you lying to little kids? You have men chasing you harder than Fat Cat right now, and you don’t care. Without the halo that the internet has given Fat Cat, he’s just a 300K per year maximum man with no house, no car, no diploma, less than 180cm in height, medium looks, divorced parents, and his only job is grinding for people. If such a man said he loved you, would you accept it?”
She heard what I had to say and admitted she couldn’t accept that kind of a boyfriend.”
Comments say, “More importantly, the second you bring up breaking up, he displays extreme behaviour. That’s the biggest flaw in him, right? People who commit suicide if you break up with them are way too scary.”
“You don’t have to love him, but you don’t have to exploit him either. That should be a basic moral line for human beings.”
“At most 300K a year? Isn’t 300K enough? That’s more than 20K a month! Isn’t that a lot?”
“I gotta speak up at least a little on this case. I feel like, if Fat Cat voluntarily gave Tan Zhu that money, and he wrote it in his transfer notes, then that’s what he wanted to do in life. If Fat Cat’s sister got that money back now, then that’s going against his wishes. I think the deceased should come first. I hope Fat Cat’s sister can respect his choices and stop bothering Fat Cat. Let him move on in peace.”
Comments say, “But he didn’t give it voluntarily. The girl demanded it as a condition to marriage. But she turned out to be a lesbian. How is this not fraud?”
“There’s this thing called PUA. Bao Li from Beijing University also voluntarily killed herself for her boyfriend. Are you gonna say her boyfriend did nothing wrong too?”
“Wow, what justice.”
> “If 3 years of high school is for the purpose of getting into college, but you didn’t actually learn anything in college, and you also forgot everything you learned in high school, then weren’t you basically dead for 7 years?”
Jokes on you. I have been dead for 10 years, and I have a degree!